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berend buil's avatar

I would say that what you just described is how sprezzatura was described by Castiglione.

You have to study how to act and what to do in private in order to make it look nonchalant in public.

In dressing study what to wear extremely well so that you can do it effortlessly.

It is a pet peeve of mine how sprezzatura is defined in modern day menswear and how it feels like exactly the opposite of what was meant:

"an easy facility in accomplishing difficult actions which hides the conscious effort that went into them"

Deliberately wearing something "wrong" is the exact opposite of hiding the conscious effort.

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Chip Oglesby's avatar

Well said!

True sprezzatura was originally about making mastery look natural and it’s hard to strike the balance between truly relaxed and obviously trying too hard.

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Hakim Callier's avatar

I love this reflection. At Heritage & Signal, I often describe my style as systematized intuition—guided by scent, culture, and structure. Your framing of ‘anti-style’ challenges that, especially your critique of sprezzatura as performative peacocking.

Perhaps the paradox is that true style only emerges when we’re fluent enough to choose when to care and when to let go. Thanks for the provocation.

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